m bi and I really like this boy, we used to be best mates and are still ates, I think he is bi but Im not sure, about a year ago we got really drunk an fell asleep huggin each other and when we woke up he didn’t react badly, now he knows I’m bi and his okay with it, we have jokes about it,, a few weeks ago he told ms he was Horney on msn and askedme to give him head but I didn’t know if he was being serous so I sed no,,, theres alot of fusen going on an I just don’t know what to do.

What should I do!! :\

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maybebi says:

May 27, 2010 at 11:17 am

I’d say tell him how you feel ― tell him that you’re attracted to him. He might just be curious about whether you being bi “automatically” means you’re ied in him, or maybe he’s ied back. But either way it’ll help him to know how you feel.

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bifortable says:

June 1, 2010 at 9:59 pm

I met this guy in school we were instantly attracted to each other. Attra that stros fusing especially when you’re still a teenager. We were attached at the hip.

Sometimes trying to verbally analyze something like that pletely spoils it.

The sexual tension grew almost out of trol with him maintaining he was straight, a wanting to violate that boundary.

Then it finally happened. Guess how? The subject of sex was always in our versation and so if I was expeg him to go outside of his boundaries, I decided to go outside of my own.

We brought a girl into the situation. My first experience ever with a girl was with him as well.

It blew my mind. Not that the girl was real hot or anything, but it made him fortable enough where we had a profound sexual experieogether.

I started thinking differently about everything after that. What are the differences between “lifestyle”, and “subculture”. eople so desperate to identify with a lifestyle or subculture?

Open yourself to the experience. What’s the worst that happen? If you wind up more fortable one way or the other then stay where you like it.

I found fort in the closeness of brotherhood. I like men because I am one. I get along well with men, I uand them. I like women because they’re different. However there’s not that fort level because sometimes I ’t uand most women’s behavior, so the sexual attra is not as strong, I share not affinity with them.

All of you live your lives how you see fit, this is just how I live mine. And I’m very happy I let myself bee this way. It’s more satisfying than maintaining a straight ay “attitude”.