if he’s not “ied”. (Read “horny”.)

2. He’s not goed if he’s flat-out turned off by you. This is perhaps more applicable fay guys who e across as a little more femihan average; for some reason, what’s attractive to us in women is a little bit of a turnoff in a guy. Not to say that you have to go out of your way to act hyper-mase, especially if it’s really putting on act; just that it’s easier to feel attracted to someone you feel fortable with, and easier to feel fortable with someone when you feel like you’ve got some on ground. Then again, maybe a very feminine guy would have an advantage in a different way.

4. If he says no ― respect that. Whether it’s in a chat room or a bar or a dorm room or whatever, ‘no’ means ‘no’, and trying to talk him into it is more likely to make him angry than aroused.

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3. Don’t go too fast. Most straight guys have probably never really sidered “messing around” with anuy. In particular, he probably hasn’t sidered the idea of anuy “chasing” him; straight guys have a pretty fortable thing going with the ladies where we’re the ones who chase them (at least on the surface), so it’s new and different for us to be iarget” role. It takes a little while to get used to the idea. Again, it’s gotta be fortable. Make sure he’s okay with talking about sex in general; if he just doesn’t want to discuss it with you at all, he’s probably not gonna want to hear your offer of “favors”.