ed　to　study　no　matter　what　and　how　his　father　asked　him　to.　When　he　got　a　job　and　became　a　worker，　he　realized　how　important　to　have　knowledge　in　this　world.　But，　it　was　too　late…

There　are　no　parents　who　don’t　think　studying　is　important　for　their　children，　and　all　the　parents　tell　their　children　to　study　hard.　We，　however，　still　have　so　much　difference　on　different　children，　on　the　results，　that　we　finally　will　know　it’　is　the　matter　of　self－control.

When　we　are　kids　in　a　primary　school，　we　see　no　difference　from　each　other.　We　just　know　somebody　is　good　at　Chinese，　Math　or　Sports.　We　just　know　that　the　teacher　likes　him　or　her.　Nowadays，　we　differentiate　our　classmates　by　their　parents.　We　say:　oh，　god，　his　father　is　the　vice　mayor，　his　father　is　very　rich；　his　mother　is　the　dean　of　the　biggest　hospital….　This　is　definitely　not　a　good　sign　for　China　and　the　Chinese　people，　because　it　makes　no　competition　for　the　youngsters，　who　are　having　China’s　future　in　hand.

The　poor　always　hate　the　rich，　because　they　see　the　rich　driving　all　the　luxury　cars，　living　in　condominiums，　villas　and　spending　money　like　they　are　countless.　And　the　poor　see　the　rich　always　on　vocations，　always　so　relaxed　and　enjoyable.　So　the　poor　are　jealous　and　they　wonder　how　can　the　rich　be　so　rich　and　the　poor　are　so　poor.　Well，　the　poor　obviously　forget　one　thing:　When　the　rich　are　working　hard　and　smart　to　collect　money，　the　poor　are　lying　somewhere　and　making　complains.

Make　your　fate　and　success　in　control；　you　can　make　a　difference　in　the　future，　unless　you　want　to　a　poor　person，　both　mentally　and　physically.

Love，　love，　love

Please　forgive　me　because　I’m　not　talking　about　the　popular　song　here.　I　really　love　that　song，　though！　What　I　want　to　bring　to　you　people　here　is　something　I’d　like　to　discuss　with.

Love　is　indeed　a　big　concept.　Thus　it　makes　some　people　confused　or　feel　blur.　As　I　have　mentioned　before　in　this　forum，　I　don’t　even　differ　“love”　from　“like”　sometimes.　Can　you?

I　know　nobody　who　doesn’t　want　his　life　filled　with　love.　One　is/has　been/will　be　receiving　love　from　his　parents，　relatives，　friends，　colleagues，　lovers　and　whatsoever　living　creatures，　including　animals.　Fully　enjoying　love　from　around　me　is　what　I　always　long　for.　How　happy　and　joyful　I　would　be　if　I　could　have　love　everywhere　in　this　planet！

Love　conquers　everything　in　human’s　world.　The　more　civilized　and　developed　a　country　is，　the　more　love　you　will　see　in　there.　I　saw　many　charity　organizations　in　Singapore　and　Canada，　and　I　believe　there　must　be　many　in　other　developed　countries.　There　is，　however，　so　few　in　China.　Even　though　there　are　some　similar　organizations　in　China，　I’m　afraid　they　are　not　doing　their　jobs.